Re love affairs good ways in dealing with unhappy marriages?

Well I chose that Im against love affairs, and I must support my point of view, Sources can be from my personal life experiences for example, friends, parents and how they are affected during and after a love affair, how did it affect their life? Focus on the down partand what not.Those can be invented

Other sources are websites or articles which dont agree on love affairs.

This modern society and how its easy to divorce so why not do it instead of living in a lie, the love affairs.